Tuesday, December 8, 2015


Flowers &

Books

The perfect gift for that special someone

Flower Goddess

Has moved

The Flower Goddess has  not gone out of business as previously reported here.
They have moved to the corner of Lindsey and Main streets in Rockland.    

Stop by the Flower Goddess to pick up a unique gift for those special people on your list who love the smell of flowers and also the smell of a new real book in their hands.

Laurie Tracy will be glad to help you pick out the perfect flowers. She also has my book, The South End  on hand to add a special touch to your gift of flowers.
 
 

Stop by today.

 

Thursday, December 3, 2015





A Guy Who Knows a Guy


As many of you know I bought a house over here in Warren this fall. When I said I was moving to Maine I got expressions of disbelief from most everyone I talked to. “Are you crazy? Don’t you know how cold it gets up there…brrrr they get all that snow…etc. etc.”

Well it’s been over 30 years since I had to shovel snow so maybe I was being naïve, but darn it, I missed Maine and was becoming increasingly homesick for home and for my family and dear friends here.

So Nanci and I threw a bunch of stuff away we really didn’t need anymore; got in touch with the good folks at Mayflower; and after a marathon trek north with poor Butchie stuffed in a carrier day after day, here we are.

As soon as we arrived we began to get advice about who to hire to do the many things necessary to live out here in the semi-country of Warren. My old South End friend, Jane Ames Sylvester, who married into another branch of my family, has lived over this way for years. She knew who to contact locally in order to get our garbage picked up and get our driveway and path to the house plowed in the winter.

Just call these phone numbers she said. OK, that sounded easy. So here’s where the title of this story “A Guy Who Knows a Guy” begins.

She said to call either this number or the other one to get a plowman. Well the first number I called resulted in a no go as he didn’t have any more room for winter plowing customers. The second number I called involved called the granddaughter to relay the message to the guy who actually plowed. I couldn’t call him directly for some reason which I forget. “Well” he said, when he called, “I can’t handle any more plowing this winter…however, my son would love to get the job as he does other homes on that road already.” So that was the first…”I know a guy” instance. The son, “who would love to get the job” finally called me a week later and very enthusiastically accepted the job. Problem solved.

Jane’s suggestion for a garbage man was right on and very easy to set up. Evidently, Wayne is the man to call in Warren to handle your garbage. You just have to leave him the required money taped to the garbage pails every Friday when he picks up. By the way, do you know how fast a taped envelope with money in it would disappear if it was taped to anything outside your home or apartment in Atlanta?

With my plowing and garbage pickup taken care of I was on a roll and figured finding a carpenter, electrician, and plumber for jobs that needed to be done around the house before winter sets in would be a piece of cake. Right? Nope. Wrong.

Seems that the fall season is the very busiest one for these workmen. I began this quest by calling numbers I found in the ad section of The Courier Gazette where various people and companies who offer services can to be found. I was also given names by friends who “knew a guy” who did the work I needed done.

I made a long list of each category in which I needed work done: Electricians, Plumbers, and Contractors. I waited. I called others. Finally I was contacted by workmen for the various jobs I needed done. It seemed to take forever though.

All of the workmen I contacted had to come inspect the site before they would accept the job. And again, in some cases it was “I can’t take on another job right now…but…I know a guy…” Well you get the gist, right?

The plumber ended up “knowing a guy” who he worked with when his jobs needed electrical work also such as putting in a separate circuit for a dryer like I needed. I had semi-promised the job to another guy recommended by a friend, however, this guy was slow to respond, which is why I went with the “guy” the plumber knew.

I still have one of these workmen left who is working on my house. I will need to call back the wonderful electrician we had to reinstall some lighting when my contractor is finished with his job.

Might I say that “the guy who knew a guy” system we followed ended up being a pleasant experience in spite of the money I had to spend. I did find their pricing reasonable as well. I have found Maine workmen to be efficient, professional, and very dedicated to maintaining their reputation as a reputable person to call when you need work done.

I look forward to spreading the wealth among these dedicated Maine workmen in the future.

 

Tuesday, December 1, 2015


Saving Rockland’s Past

 
Birthplace of Edna St. Vincent Millay at
198-200 Broadway in Rockland, Maine
 
 
The Free Press of November 5, 2015 carried a disturbing story as its lead story on Page 1. The house pictured here is the birthplace of Rockland’s most famous person, Edna St. Vincent Millay. Although she grew up mostly in Camden, Rockland has its own claim to this most famous poet because she was born in this house on Broadway in Rockland.
As you can see from the photo, the house is in a terrible state of disrepair. It has recently gone on the market for a mere $88,000 in a short sale which means you pay for it in cash and make whatever repairs are necessary yourself. Such sales are usually grabbed up by those professional “flippers” out there who will restore such houses and then put them on the market.
However, it may be too late for the Broadway house as it has several major things wrong with it including the heating system and structural problems. It very well could end up as cheap rental housing, which ironically was the rental home of the Millay family when it was first built in 1892. Sadly there is also the possibility to consider that the structure will be torn down.
My own family claims its own connection with Millay as relatives on her Emery side. One of the Emery clan, my. grandmother Ida Emery,  was married to my grandfather, Frederick Sylvester, her first husband. She later married Roy Tolman, who was related to Isaiah Tolman, the first settler of Rockland. Henry Tolman Millay, Edna’s father, was descended from Isaiah.
I say all this because my family would be very upset to say the least if this famous house were to end up in the lost files of Rockland history and Rockland’s connection to Millay would be forever lost and denied to us.
Edna St. Vincent Millay was born in this house on February 22, 1892. Bells rang out exactly as she was born and they realized that she was born on George Washington’s birthday, thus the celebration with the bells.
The house on Broadway was a gathering place for friends and family before Edna was born. There were weekend card games and sing-a-longs. They described their home as D.E., or damn elegant. Look at it now with its peeling paint and you would never know such a famous person once lived there. The plaque placed on the outside of the house in 1935 by the Women’s Educational Club to honor the house for its historical value is now long gone. The folks who lived there during that time got tired of people knocking on the door hoping for a tour of the house or for picture opportunities. I expect that today’s “selfie” brigade would have driven them nuts also.
Edna’s hair was “Emery” red like the hair of many Emerys I have known in my own life. I have an autographed picture given to my Great-Aunt Mary Sue Emery, also a red head. I always hang it in my office wherever I live and use it as my own personal muse.
I write of all these family connections to emphasize how much she means to my family and how much it would personally offend me if any horrible thing were to happen to the house on Broadway.
It would be a shame and a disgrace if the city of Rockland and its residents who love its history were to ignore the Broadway house and just let the chips fall where they may.
So what can we all do about it? I urge you to contact my friend, Ann Morris, of the Rockland Historical Society, who is trying to come up with ways to save the house. They are looking to establish a foundation that could solicit donations which would eventually reestablish Millay’s birthplace as a literary landmark and might I also add myself, possibly a national historical landmark. Other activities would involve using the house as a cultural center possibly tying it in with Farnsworth Museum programs.
If you care about preserving our past and honoring probably the most famous person who ever lived in Rockland, please consider my words here. In the current era of Rockland’s artistic atmosphere there should certainly be room for the cultural programs that could be developed by using this most famous site on Broadway as a stepping stone to draw more literary people to the area for workshops and the like.
Let’s see what we can accomplish here. You with me?

Sunday, November 15, 2015


A Special  Holiday Gift for the Book Readers on your list…

 
I have several signed copies of The South End available for the readers on your holiday shopping list. So here’s the deal:
 
If you order The South End from November 16 to December 16, I will deliver your copy if you live in the Rockland area. PLUS you will also receive a copy of my CD, “On Being a Southender,” Vol 1, 2009. For details on the CD, please see the ad here on the blog to the right. This deal will save you $12.50 plus zero shipping charges. To order, email me at www.southendstories.com.
You may also order just the CD through the instructions in the ad to the right.
If you wish to order my book, but live out-of-state or out of the greater Rockland area here in Maine, please go to buybooksontheweb.com. You should also be able to order the book in any bookstore where you live. You may find it in a few stores here in Maine. Hello Hello Books in Rockland and The Flower Goddess in Thomaston carry it.
This deal will only apply while supplies last, so order your book(s) soon.
 
 
 
 

Saturday, October 31, 2015




Sonny’s Sunshine Corner



Hi, everyone. It’s been a long time between posts here on “Beyond the Southend.” I’ve missed you all since I had to leave this space at the end of April. I still have not had the operation I need on my right thumb as I simply ran out of time before I left Georgia. I will however try to continue the blog as I am able to until such time as I can arrange for the operation so that I can return to you full time.

 
Brother Ted
 
 
During the summer a lot happened to me personally included the death of my dear brother, Ted. You have all enjoyed his old “Fish and Chips” columns here and I will try to bring you more of his old columns as soon as possible. I will also do a special tribute to him at a later date.
Nanci and I are now residents of Maine, as we moved here in the middle of October. We are still trying to get the house here in Warren ready for winter with some much needed repairs. We therefore can’t visit you all very much until our projects are finished. At least we have most of the boxes unpacked and as much stuff put away as possible until we have arranged our storage spaces better.
I will certainly plan, however, to attend the next RHS Class of ’59 breakfast at the Brown Cow next month. Please all come so that I can reconnect with you all.
 
Two special little twins I said good bye to in Georgia…Kennedy on the right and Rayne on the left, daughters of former workmate, Casey Shumate Parr and her husband.
 
The back side of my new home in Warren, Maine
 
See you later. Until then wish me luck in luring Butchie out of one of many of his new hidey holes.
 
 
 
 
 

 


Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Blog On Hiatus

I am sorry to say that I must put the blog on hiatus for a few months. My right hand is in need of surgery, that will happen later on this summer. Until then, I must use it as little as possible. That means, no typing, no mousing, no nothing :(

Thank you so much for your continued loyalty, and I hope to be up and running again as quickly as I can heal.

Your favorite blogger, Sandra

Tuesday, April 21, 2015


Sail, Power & Steam Museum

Opening May 1


 
The Sail, Power and Steam Museum in Rockland is
 reopened for the season on May 1
and has a fantastic line up this year
 for YOUR entertainment.....
BEGINNING WITH CHRIS & MAIRE

Thursday, April 16, 2015



The Old Town Trolley Tour

(Please read “A Yankee Does Savannah” first before you read this story.)


I took the Old Town Trolley Tour around Savannah’s historic district while Nanci was doing her thing with Jeopardy. I took the Paula Deen tour the last time I was in Savannah, so thought I’d take in a little history this time. I love history.

My trolley driver and tour guide for most of the trip was named Scott. Besides all the historical facts he imparted to us, he also related some stories and facts you might not see in the history books. He was very entertaining and I enjoyed the tour very much. A beautiful blue sky kind of day with a slight breeze made the open air trolley ride even better.

There are 16 stops on the tour. I will tell you some of the stories and history Scott told us about along the way.

We were shuttled to the trolley’s car barn which is on Martin Luther King Boulevard. Here you will find the historic railroad station and at Stop 1 nearby is the Savannah History Museum; the Civic Center; Roundhouse Railroad Museum; the Civil Rights Museum.

I must mention that even the shuttle driver made us feel welcome before we even started the tour. He made sure we understood that we were now on “slow” time, as is the Southern way.

As we headed out to Stop 2, via Oglethorpe Ave., Scott told us about General James Oglethorpe, the founder of Savannah. Please see the other sidebar, “Oglethorpe and the Founding of Atlanta” for more of that history.

What he did tell us about Oglethorpe, who had a charter from the king of England to found the city, was the four things Oglethorpe would not allow in the new colony known as Savannah:

1.    No hard liquor was allowed. You could drink beer or ale, however.

2.    No slavery

3.    No Catholics

4.    No lawyers

The general was sent to the area to act as a buffer south of the Savannah River to protect the Carolinas from Spanish Florida and French Louisiana, both Catholic strongholds. Thus the ban on Catholics.

Scott told us, however, that after about 25 years, all four of the bans were lifted.

SCAD or Savannah College of Art and Design (I think that’s right) have done a lot of restoration work in the city. Scott pointed out the places they had worked on or were in the process of working on.
 
 

Stop 2 is the City Market area as you see in this picture. There was a horse and carriage similar to this one when we went by. What used to be an open market now has been built up with lots of interesting shops to visit. You can take carriage rides throughout the city, go by pedicab or even by Segway.
 
Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil

 
From the Lady Chablis internet page.
 
Scott pointed out many places along the way that had been the scene of many movies over the years. Most notable is the book made into a movie by John Berendt called Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil which was based on a true story. We went by Club One where one character, who is a real person in fact, Lady Chablis, a transgender woman, performed. She still does. I thought of Lady Chablis when I created one character in my own book, who was also a real person. You can take a tour that covers the life of Jim Williams from the book.
Other Scottisms
A couple of other good stories Scott told were about the Monument of the Confederacy and the first house in Savannah that had electricity.
The monument was paid for by the Daughters of the Confederacy. It was made in Canada and shipped down to Savannah so that it would not touch Yankee soil on the way down. It was placed facing the North—towards the enemy.
The first house with electricity in Savannah turned out to be a big event. Townsfolk were invited to come and stand outside the house when they turned the lights on for the first time. Everyone expected the house to explode when they turned them on so they all jumped back when the house was lit up.
Scott said that it became a big date night when a beau asked if his girl wanted to go see the lights come on in the house in the evening. Guess that was their “whale watching” gimmick in those days.
The Waving Girl
 
 
 
At stop 11 on River Street is a statue of a waving girl. She stood by the water and waved to every ship that went by for years and years. A sailor said he’d come back to her, so she waved every day in the hopes he would come back. Her name was Florence Martus. She lived from 1862-1941. When she died, 2000 sailors came to her funeral.
This is the only stop I got out at because it was a short walk to the candy store where I wanted to get some pralines. While I was there a humungus container ship came in to port right by where we were in the trolley.
The Final Calamity
OK, here it is. You cheaters have read all the way through so now I will tell you the end of the story.
When the trolley returned to the car barn and I was waiting for the shuttle to take me back to the hotel to meet up with Nanci again, I decided to call her. Guess what? No cell phone. My five year old Blackberry with every important phone number in my life on it was nowhere to be found.
Along the way I was struggling to keep track of a cane; the backpack; reading glasses and dark glasses; a hat, a pad and pen for notes; and later the bag of candy. Remember the text message I got when I started this trip back at the hotel? That was the last time I saw it.
So now what? The cell phone was the only way I could contact her. I had already checked out of the hotel. I was in a panic. I know my blood pressure went up considerably. Well, I said, she will probably go back to the hotel looking for me. I knew, of course, she must be panicking too at this point.
I had to wait a while for the shuttle, but when I got to the hotel and saw the car in the parking lot I breathed a sigh of relief.
Alls well that ends well, I guess. I left instructions for the possible return of my phone—fat chance—and we got on the road home to get back to our Butchie who was home alone with a pile of food and extra water.
Nanci says she thinks she did well this time with Jeopardy. We have our fingers crossed. We could use a break. Who knows what will happen if we attempt to take a trip to California for the show?
For more on the history of Savannah and its founder, General Oglethorpe, please go on to the next story, “Oglethorpe and the Founding of Savannah.”
Thanks for listening.


UPDATE: The lost is found! The good people of Old Town Trolleys found my phone and sent it back to me via Fed X yesterday, less than a week from when I took the tour. My heartfelt thanks go out to everyone at Old Town Trolley for their attention to details when it comes to their tourists. I highly recommend this tour if you are ever visiting Savannah. The drivers/tour guides are very pleasant in the southern way and very informative. Thank you Old Town Trolleys!

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

 
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Monday, April 13, 2015

 
 
A Yankee Does Savannah
This Yankee and the other Yankee from Philly, Nanci, recently spent a night and a day in Savannah, Georgia. The trip, which is about four hours away, was mainly a comedy of errors. However, once we got there we both had a great time, until calamity struck at the very end of our visit. You’ll have to read this whole story or cheat and go to the end now to discover what the calamity was. Don’t cheat!
There will also be two other side bars with this story so go into the blog and look for “The Old Town Trolley Tour” and “Oglethorpe and the Founding of Savannah.”
The reason for our visit to probably the most charming and history-laden city in Georgia, was Nanci’s participation in a Jeopardy search event at the Westin hotel in Savannah. We have gone to Savannah once before for the same reason. We hope this time, which is about the seventh or eighth time she’s tried out for the show, will be the one, the magic charm so to speak.
I did take some pictures, but they didn’t come out very well on this little cheap camera I have. I therefore have stolen some shots from the brochures I brought back with me.
 
The Trip Down
We left the Atlanta area about 1:00 pm after Nanci actually did some of her real job in the am, if you can believe it. Nanci had looked online and tried to pick the best route for us. Everywhere she looked she could see construction delays. It’s the story of our life around here. Kids growing up in Georgia would think it strange if they didn’t see a bunch of orange cones in their travels around the state.
We more or less flipped a coin and chose several connecting highways to get to our destination. Although the day was nice, the construction about drove us crazy. She drove and we couldn’t go more than 50 miles or so without running into a stretch of construction. She’d get it up to 80 or so and learned how to use the cruise control to save her bad knee when she could.
And oh, did I mention the bugs who insisted on ending their short lives on our windshield all the way down?
The Hotel and Dinner
We checked into our hotel about 5:00 or so and tried to catch our breath for a while. Our room was nice with a nice couch, microwave, frig, and tv. We munched on the snacks we had brought with us while we waited for our reservation time for dinner at Lady and Sons.
Our favorite Southern chef,
 Paula Deen
 
 
Parking was scarce on those old narrow streets and it was also Spring Break time and the city was loaded with people. Therefore we pulled into a parking lot for a whopping $10 dollar fee. The parking attendant was amusing though. He and Nanci exchanged jokes and he probably told the one she gave him for the rest of the night. I think the man may have warrants out on him up Atlanta way because he mentioned he had a DUI and couldn’t go back up there because of it. Hmmmm.
Before we went in to eat we went next door to the Paula Deen Store. Oh boy, I could have bought one of everything in there. I did get an apron and a T-shirt. We got out of there before I went really crazy.
For dinner I had an appetizer of fried green tomatoes, one of my very favorite southern dishes. Then we both had crab stuffed shrimp. She loved dinner, I wasn’t crazy about it. I think I prefer my shrimp in more of a plain fashion.
Did I also mention that I forgot my reading glasses? I only had four pair at home and none of them found their way into my suitcase. Therefore I couldn’t see what I was eating very well and the lighting was also poor so there you go. We were going to bring some key lime pie back to the room with us, but decided against it.
Nanci walked down the street after we left the restaurant and got me some new glasses and a bottle of Tylenol because we both had forgotten to bring any kind of pain medicine with us—she with a bad knee and me with a bad knee and ankle.
The Next Day
The next morning we got Nanci all dolled up to go see the Jeopardy people and she left about 9:00 am. By the way, she forgot her good shoes and had to wear the sneakers she drove down in. She only had to drive over the New Talmadge Bridge to get to the Westin, about ten minutes away. We packed the car before she left and I put what I needed for the day into a backpack.
Checkout was 11:30 am so I hung out in the room awhile. There was a free breakfast downstairs but I was feeling apprehensive about going on a trolley tour by myself with a cane and knee and ankle braces to get me through the day. Although I had exercised ahead of time, I still have not recuperated enough so that I can stand or walk for too long.
I finally got up enough courage to go find some breakfast. There was actually a tour representative for the tour I had booked ahead of time online, in the lobby. She relieved my mind about how I would get to and from the tour. She said there was a shuttle that would take me back and forth.
So I managed to get an English muffin toasted in the breakfast room which was full of people. There was hardly elbow room. As I found a place to sit, my cell phone text feature rang. It was T Mobile telling me they had received my most recent payment. I thought, “get lost.” I have enough to think about right now.
Some other people in the hotel were going on the same tour, so I made friends with them. They could see I had a cane I think because when the shuttle left us off we had to walk a bit to get to the trolley for the tour. One of the women let me get in front of her to get into the trolley so I wouldn’t have to stand too long. I got a wonderful seat right behind the driver and my legs held up just fine. I planned to stay on the trolley and not get on and off, which was an option. Another trolley would come along in about 15 minutes and your tour would pick up right you left it off.
As it happened I did get off once. But you will have to read the tour story, “The Old Town Trolley Tour” to find out where. And guess what, you’ll also have to read to the end of that story to find out what the big calamity was. Sorry, cheaters.

Oglethorpe and the Founding of Savannah

Photo from Wikipedia

General James Oglethorpe was granted a charter by King George II to establish a colony south of the Savannah River to protect the Carolinas from Spanish Florida and French Louisiana.
Oglethorpe arrived in 1732 in the ship Anne which carried the general and 114 colonists. In 1733 the settlers landed at Yamacraw Bluff and were greeted by Tomochici, the Yamacraws, and John and Mary Musgrove, Indian traders.
With Mary Musgrove acting as translator, Oglethorpe and Tomochici formed a lasting friendship. The result was the founding of the city of Savannah, along with the Province of Georgia. The Yamacraws chose to live on the island, leaving Savannah to the colonists. In this manner Savannah was able to flourish without the threat of warfare with their Indian neighbors unlike the troubles other beginning colonies had with native Indians.
As noted before, Oglethorpe placed four bans on the colony as it was formed:
1.    No hard liquor allowed, beer and ale were all right
2.    No Catholics (because of the first paragraph in this story)
3.    No slavery
4.    No lawyers
We can understand why he would place the first three bans, but the last one, no lawyers, is still a mystery. Maybe he had bad relations with some lawyer along the way. In any event, all four bans went by the wayside within about 25 years of the founding of the city.
Savannah is the largest city and the county seat of Chatham County. It was the first colonial and state capital of Georgia. It is known as America’s first planned city. Its unique architecture, much of it surviving Sherman’s march to the sea during the Civil War, attracts many visitors to the area.
Some historic sites include the home that was the birthplace of Juliette Gordon Low, founder of the Girl Scouts of the U.S.A.; Telfair Academy of Arts and Sciences (one of the South’s first public museums); the First African Baptist Church (one of the oldest black Baptist congregations in the U.S.); Temple Mickve Israel (the third-oldest synagogue in America); and the Central of Georgia Railway roundhouse complex (the oldest standing antebellum rail facility in America). Savannah’s downtown historic area is one of the largest National Historic Landmark Districts in the U.S.
Today Savannah is also an important center of the arts with its art schools making an important mark in their host city. SCAD or Savannah College of Art and Design have restored antebellum buildings and it continues to go forward in that pursuit.