South End Authors Appear in RHS Class of 1952 Newsletter

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Honor Thy Mother

My mother, Evangeline, at age 60

One of the Golden Rules (don’t ask me which one) instructs us to honor our mother and father. In the month of May we traditionally honor our mothers. As my own mother died several years ago, I now honor her memory and remember how much she did for me growing up. Her birthday was also in May, so I have two days this month in which to honor her.

I would also like to honor and remember some other women who acted as my mother at different times in my life. Some of them stepped in when my mother was sick and in the hospital; some were neighborhood women; and some were special women I met later on in life. I have written about many of the neighborhood women in a previous blog which is on the blog CD. It is called “The Real Housewives of the South End.” Check it out.

My mother, Evangeline Lana Winchenbaugh Sylvester, was a typical 50s housewife when I was growing up. Her world was her family and taking care of them. She gave us a clean environment, good food, and support for our endeavors.

We were a middle class family who may have had a little more than some of our South End neighbors as my Dad was a machinist at the Cement Plant in Thomaston. If we were underprivileged we didn’t realize it. We didn’t get everything we wanted in our young lives, but there were times when our mother would save her dimes in a special bank to buy something we really wanted. Sometimes it would take her months to do so.

We never went hungry in our house. However, everything we ate was usually made from scratch by our mother. We didn’t have a lot of store bought candy in the house. We either had fruit or homemade brownies and cookies to munch on. When my father came home from work, dinner was on the table and we all sat down together to eat it. He was a meat and potatoes man, therefore most of our meals were of that variety. If you gave him something a little different you had to explain exactly what was in it.

When our mother wasn’t able to take care of us, we often had a substitute live-in mother in the persons of my Aunt Alice or my Great-Aunt May. Alice was really a cousin, but she grew up with my dad. She would leave her own eight children at the farm up in Orrington to come and take care of us. Great-Aunt May was my Dad’s aunt. Her real name was Mary Sue Emery and she was a former nurse and served in the Army-Air Force in two world wars. Both of these women were also excellent cooks, so we never went hungry when they were in residence either.

There were other women in the neighborhood who also stepped in when necessary. I would like to honor Thelma Small and Mrs. Pomroy in particular.

When I was away at school we had “house mothers” who often took care of us when necessary. I remember one house mom who nursed me through black fly bites on my eyelids by putting warm teabags on them to soothe them. I also lived one year with a woman named Effie, a maiden lady who boarded two of us girls at the teacher’s college down east. We didn’t eat there, but at the college, but she was always pleasant to us and so enjoyed our company.

As an employee of the Atlanta Jewish Community Center for eight years, there were many instances when those special women came to my rescue. I remember one particular time when my boss made sure I got health insurance because I couldn’t afford it at the time. Another woman made sure I had something to eat when I was very broke at one point. There were many special women at the Center who accepted this “goyim” among them with open arms.

I have been nurtured and loved by many mothers in my life. These are but a few examples. I miss my own mother often and wish I could just call her on the phone and ask her opinion on something like I used to. I will remember her this Sunday and later on in the month on her birthday.

Meanwhile, my 100-yr.-old aunt, my mother’s sister, Aunt Virginia Poletti, who was not able to have children of her own, is now my mother. I remember her every Mother’s Day the same way I would remember my mother in years past. Evangeline would want it that way.

Thanks for listening.

Museum Happenings

The Grand Reopening of the museum was May 1st. I hope you all got an opportunity to participate. Volunteers were busy all winter with renovations to the museum and in building the new steam engine building. Programs are beginning again. Check them out on this space at the summer progresses.


Latest update: May 31

Larry hanks and Deborah robins

Thursday, June 2, 7:30

Special…small…intimate…informal concert

Larry Hanks is a complicated guy who sings songs of other people’s complicated lives in an uncomplicated manner. His earthy and deeply resonant voice draws us into worlds of people and places where we may never otherwise go. He and Deborah Robins elegantly embroider landscapes that never existed, save in their songs.

THIS IS THEIR ONLY

APPEARANCE IN MAINE

ON THEIR NATIONWIDE TOUR

$12 Advance tickets; $15 Door; (Advance tickets available at the

 Sail, Power and Steam Museum on Mechanic Street in Rockland.

Here are some excerpts from the latest newsletter from Captain Sharp:

Family Fun Day at the Museum

The new Engine Room Display Building

Happenings this month include:

More Recent Photos from Facebook Page

A new model at the museum of the steamship "55 Camden" or "The Night Boat from Boston" The ship ran from Boston to Bangor in the early 1900s.

Volunteers help with the new building project.

The frame is completed for the new barn.

Museum float that appeared in the 2010 Lobster Festival Parade

The New Lime Kiln to be 

Fired up on May 27

A replica of a real lime kiln as it was being built.

Joe Auciello places the last granite piece 

atop the new lime kiln, the first one made since 1890.

A peek inside the kiln

June Calendar

Open Jammm every Sunday

Friday, June 3, 7 pm - Sam Manning Graphic Artist - Lecture on Masting and the Kings Broad Arrow.

Making Masts and Rigging, Lines, Splices & Bends - See our new Rigging Room!

Saturday, June 4, 7 pm - George Hampson - 'Alvin' the submersible peers into amazing depths.

Sunday, June 5, 2-4pm - Sunday Jamm - gets underway for another Sunday

bring your instrument or come and enjoy the fun.

NEW GIANT FLEA MARKET - 6/18 + 19th - WANTED! Crafters, Artists, Anyone with goods to sell! Only $5 - $10 for space Maritime items, household goods and furniture, crafts and local art! All on the Waterfront - what a great way to spend the weekend. Music, food, model T rides, Harbor cruises, lime kiln - something for everyone! Reserve our table under the tent $10, Your tent and table $5 June 18 and 19th at the Sail, Power and Steam Museum and Sharp's Point South - 75 Mechanic St., Rockland Call 701-5050 to reserve your space.

 Wednesday, June 1: Tour/explanation of treasures on display, 1 hour tours from 2-4pm

Thursday, June 2: Lime Kiln Burn, Model T rides, Harbor Cruises, Musical Presentations, Educational Lecture Series; also occurs on Family Fun Days on Saturdays.

Friday, June 17: Race on the bay between Schooner Stephen Taber and Lewis French

Friday, June 24: Lecture and DVD Show by Captain Jim Sharp on the new book, “I Loved this Work” by Captain Jack Crowell-“Journey to the Edge of Disaster, 7pm.

The Coastal Children's Museum is open year-long. Museum hours beginning May 1 are Wednesday-Saturday 10-4; Sunday 1-4. Closed Monday-Tuesday. Enjoy a free guided tour every Wednesday at 2. If you don't see a tour guide, just call 207-701-7027 to touch bases with someone who can take you through the museum. Free harbor trips on the Rekord also take place throughout the summer. Call the museum. I enjoyed my trip very much.

If you can't read this membership form, call the museum at 207-701-7627 or visit www.sharpspointsouth.com 

Gifts for Mom and Breakfast in Bed

Mother’s Day Gift Ideas from www.tasteofhome.com

The gifts that Mom cherishes most are the ones hand-crafted by her own kids. When you present Mom with a mouth-watering breakfast in bed or a lovely lunch at the kitchen table, have the kids make their mark with a one-of-a-kind tray or table topper.

Make a card

Instead of buying a greeting card, enlist the little ones to make a card at home. Or have them draw a pretty picture and place it in a frame. (Inexpensive canvas or paper-covered photo frames are available at craft stores.)

Fresh flower arrangement

Fresh-picked daisies bring a touch of spring inside ... and a kid-crafted vase is the perfect way to display the bright bouquet!

While you start making the meal, have the kids hunt down some of their marbles and place them in a regular drinking glass. Tuck daisy stems into the marbles, then fill with water.

For an even more colorful arrangement, place a decorative ponytail holder around the marble-filled glass. Slide crayons between the glass and holder until the entire glass is covered.

More gifts from www.homemadesimple.com

Family Tree Calendar

Every family is unique, and with this simple crafts project, you can honor your personal genealogy with endless creative possibilities. Begin by downloading the Family Tree Branch Template and Family Tree Leaf Template to construct your tree, then let your artistic side take the reins to craft a one-of-a-kind masterpiece.

MATERIALS 

4 sheets 8 ½” x 11” paper, all same color (weight, style and color of your choice*)

1 additional sheet of paper for every 6 tree leaves (weight, style and color of your choice*)

Family Tree Branch Template

Family Tree Leaf Template

Scissors

Clear tape

Writing utensils (pens, pencils, markers)

Photos of loved ones

Glue stick

Spray adhesive

1 large sheet poster stock, matte board or cork board

Embellishments (beads, sequins, scrapbook stickers, tags, ribbon) *Using a variety of papers will lend texture and interest to your Family Tree Calendar. Because you will construct individual leaves for each member of your family, try pulling from an assortment of paper designs and colors when printing your leaf templates. Find inspiration in your home décor palette, or consider it a way to reflect your loved ones’ personalities.

INSTRUCTIONS

1. On each of your first 4 sheets of paper, print out one section of the downloadable Family Tree Branch Template.
2. Use scissors to trim each image along the margins. Align the branch designs to tile together the image, then fasten the pieces together along the back with clear tape.
3. Use your extra paper sheets to print out the downloadable Family Tree Leaf Template. Each sheet yields six leaves, so determine the number of leaves you would like for your tree and continue reprinting the template on additional sheets.
4. Carefully cut out the leaves with scissors and use a pen or decorative marker to write down your loved ones’ information on each of the leaves.
   
   
   Tip: Consider each leaf as a different person, with the five petals showcasing different pieces of information. For example, dedicate a leaf to your mother, writing her first name, last name, birth month, birth date and birth year on the five petals. Your family tree is also perfect for anniversaries, upcoming weddings and other special events. Try honoring a betrothed couple by writing the bride’s full name, the groom’s full name, the location of the wedding ceremony, the date of the ceremony and the time on individual petals.
   
   
5. Next, use scissors to trim photos of loved ones so their headshot will fit within the center of their leaf. Adhere the picture to the leaf with your glue stick.
6. Using your glue stick or clear tape, adhere the leaves onto the tree image. Envision each of the four tree quadrants as a three-month span, with the bottom left-hand quadrant representing January, February and March. Moving clockwise, the upper left-hand segment represents April, May and June, and so on. Locate the dates on each of your leaves and adhere them to the corresponding region. Apply a spray adhesive to your sheet of poster stock, matte board or cork board, then mount your family tree to the material for extra stability. Complete your Family Tree by embellishing the piece with decorative touches like beads, sequins and stickers, as desired. For an extra polished look, try framing the piece, or adhere ribbon along the calendar’s border. 

Homemade Stationery

Create something beautiful and useful out of paper scraps, magazines, junk mail and more. Transform those clutter piles into handmade cards and envelopes perfect for a sweet spring greeting, thoughtful hello or heartfelt Mother’s Day wish next month. You can also gather your recycled crafts to create unique homemade gifts sets—ideal for anyone who loves to stay in touch in style!

From Trash to Treasure

With loads of junk mail flooding your mailbox each day, it’s important to sort and recycle the unwanted pieces. But instead of tossing those brochures, magazines and offer letters directly into the recycling bin, try repurposing them into brand new sheets of paper that you’ll surely treasure and want to share.

To create your paper base, use only non-waxy, non-glossy junk mail and paper scraps. Just follow these easy downloadable instructions for Hand Pressed Paper to get started.

Easy, Eclectic Envelopes

Next, design easy-to-make envelopes to match your recycled paper theme. For an eclectic, almost collaged look, pull from a variety of sources, such as leftover decorative paper, wrapping paper, maps, magazines and newsprint. Put your recycled craft together and make construction a snap by downloading our instructions and Easy, Eclectic Envelope Template.

Gift Sets

After you’ve created your recycled crafts, consider packaging your pieces together in special homemade gift sets for loved ones. Turn to your calendar and check for upcoming occasions, like friends’ birthdays.  

• Personalize: With these simple recycled crafts projects, it’s easy to tailor your pieces to reflect your loved ones’ personalities and interests; for example—repurpose songbook pages for a musical friend, collect maps from an atlas or old book for an avid traveler, or reuse pages from old cookbooks or food magazines for the master cook in your life.
• Package: Compile four to six cards and envelopes for each stationery set, fastening your homemade gift packs with a complementary ribbon. You can even package your items in an organized way that allows you to use even more paper scraps. Take a plain wooden desk organizer from drab to fabulous using decorative paper and glue. Once you’re done, fill the decorated desk organizer with recycled cards, envelopes, pads of paper and a few writing utensils so your friend can start corresponding in a beautifully organized way.

With simple steps and endless creative options, it’s easy and fun to repurpose paper clutter into beautiful paper goods for you and your friends.

Wearable Memories 

Keep the things you love close to your heart with these stylishly simple pendant necklaces. All of the necessary supplies should be available at your local craft or jewelry making store and it’s the pieces you arrange inside your pendants that make them uniquely your own! It’s a special collage craft project with results that you and your home maven friends can treasure for many years to come.

Getting Started 

Have your friends collect a few small, flat items that are meaningful to them for a day of jewelry making fun! Possible items could include anything from pieces that remind them of a friend or family member to representations of hobbies and special interests or just items they find pretty and unique.

Here are a few examples:

• Photos
• Images from magazines
• Words from books or poetry
• Decorative papers and patterned print-outs
• Stamps
• Tiny buttons

You’ll provide the metal pendant trays in different sizes and shapes such as circles, rectangles and squares and a paper glaze for capturing your collages of keepsakes inside the pendants. For all the supplies you will need, just print this handy Keepsake Necklace Materials List.

Step 1: Create Your Crafting Space 

Before your friends arrive, choose a clean, flat table you can use as your work surface. Lay down a drop cloth or plastic and tape securely onto your table to protect it from any possible glaze drips. Arrange the tools you’ll need on the table such as pendants, scissors, glaze, old spoons or forks and notebooks or magazines. Each person will use a notebook or magazine as their level work surface as they arrange their items and apply the glaze.

Step 2: Arrange Your Keepsakes

Each person can spend as much time as needed to arrange the items they want to capture in their pendant. It’s a good idea to start with a background of some sort, such as a solid or patterned piece of decorative paper. Make sure to provide scissors or craft knives so your friends can cut their pieces to sizes and shapes that will fit snugly inside their pendants. Lighter-colored papers may soak up the glaze and discolor,so make sure to test your paper before creating your final design.

Everyone will basically create a miniature collage inside their pendant, using as many or as few items as desired. Just make sure your arrangements lie relatively flat so the glaze can be applied over top. Use a small amount of the glaze to adhere your items to the pendants rather than glue. Different compounds mixing can cause the colors of the items to bleed. Use the handle end of an old spoon or fork to smooth out any bubbles or ridges that appear on the items .you are gluing down

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Before adding the topcoat of glaze, you can also add a small amount glitter on top of your collage to create a little sparkle. Also, while the glaze is still wet you can move or change your 

arrangement.

Step 3: Apply the Glaze 

After you’ve made your desired arrangement, it is time to apply the layer of glaze. Lay your pendant flat against the notebook or magazine with the loop over the edge so the pendant stays completely level. Apply an even coat of glaze, in a very thin layer. Try not to let too much glaze build up around the edges of the pendant. Too much glaze at once can cause cloudiness.

Using the handle end of your old spoon or fork, smooth out any bubbles or ridges you find in your glaze. You can either leave the pendants where they are or carefully move them to an area where they won’t be jostled so they are allowed to dry evenly. Check on your pendants after a short while so you can pop any bubbles that come up and make sure the paper is not discoloring.

Step 4: Wrap it up 

The glaze that is used to set the collage in the pendants will likely take several hours to dry (up to 24 hours for some). Check the directions on the bottle of glaze for specific timing and 

keep the pendants on a flat surface that’s out of the way while they dry.

Once the glaze has dried after the party, wrap them up for delivery. Choose a chain or cord for the pendants and place each one inside a pretty piece of fabric tied with a ribbon. Bring them to your next get together and admire your handiwork.

Clean Up:

Wipe away any glaze messes with Mr. Clean ^® Magic Eraser ^®. A foaming multi-purpose cleaner is built inside so you just add water to clean even the toughest soils.

Homemade Spa Recipes from www.tasteofhome.com

Avocado Facial Mask

Avocados make a moisturizing mask that's nourishing for dry or sun-exposed skin.

1 avocado, peeled and seeded

2 tsp. sweet almond oil or virgin olive oil

1. Mash avocado and add oil.

2. Apply mixture to face and leave on 15 to 20 minutes.

3. Rinse with lukewarm water and pat dry with towel.

Salt Glow

Salt scrubs are among my favorite home spa treatments. This one leaves your skin soft and glowing.

1/4 cup coarse salt (sea salt or kosher salt)

2 Tbsp. virgin olive oil

3-4 Tbsp. lemon juice

Directions:

1. Mix salt and oil.

2. Add lemon juice.

3. Massage into skin while you shower.

4. Rinse, pat dry and apply a natural moisturizer.

Gentle Oatmeal Mask

This is a good face mask for oily skin. The recipe makes enough for one treatment and should be applied as soon as it's mixed.

1 Tbsp. honey (runny)

1 egg yolk

4 Tbsp. fine oatmeal

Directions:

1. Mix honey and egg yolk together in a small bowl.

2. Slowly stir in enough oatmeal to make a soft paste.

3. Smooth mask across face and neck and keep on for 15 minutes.

4. Rinse off with lukewarm water and pat dry with towel.

Eye Brighteners

Place a slice of cucumber over each eye. Lie back and relax for 15 minutes while cucumber tones and soothes skin around the eyes.

Take two tea bags and make tea. Gently squeeze out the brewed tea bag and let cool. Place one slightly damp bag over each eye. Chamomile is good for tired eyes, while Indian tea (such as Darjeeling), an astringent, will firm the skin.

Make Mom Breakfast in Bed from www.tasteofhome.com

Golden Oat Pancakes and Green Onion Scrambled Eggs deliciously prove that great-tasting foods don't require complicated recipes. (See May Recipes for these recipes)

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We even offer a timetable that makes menu planning extra easy!

One Week Before:

Come up with the menu and make a grocery list.

Have the kids make a card or draw a picture for Mom. (If desired, pick up an inexpensive photo frame for the drawing.)

Look at home for a breakfast tray or pick one up from the store. You don't have to use a tray with legs...any tray (even a plastic one for outdoor entertaining) will do.

Two Days Before:

Stop at the grocery store for any needed items.

Put marbles in a drinking glass. Surround with a ponytail holder and crayons if desired. Hide the glass from Mom!

The Day Before:

Make Lemon-Blueberry Tea Bread (see May recipes) and cool completely. Store in a resealable plastic bag on the counter overnight.

Combine the flour, baking powder, brown sugar and salt for Golden Oat Pancakes. Place in an airtight container; store at room temperature.

Mother's Day Morning:

Get up early with the kids and let Mom sleep in!

Have older kids add water and fresh-cut flowers from your yard to the marble-filled drinking glass; set on the breakfast tray along with the kid-crafted greeting card or framed drawing.

Slice Lemon-Blueberry Tea Bread.

Make Fruit Smoothies or pour Mom a cup of coffee, orange juice or her favorite morning beverage.

While the Golden Oat Pancakes are cooking on the griddle, prepare Green Onion Scrambled Eggs in a skillet.

Top the pancakes with fresh fruit or syrup.

Serve Mom breakfast in bed!