Monday, October 1, 2012


Revisiting the South End—if You Dare

In memory of my brother, Harlan, who would have been 77 yesterday.
 
 
The yard at our Mcloud Street home as it is today.
 All these maple trees were small when I lived there except for the one next to the buildings.
Photo by Sandra Sylvester

 
Those of you who have followed this blog since its beginning on the old Village Soup site in 2009 know I have approached this subject more than once. You always seem to like stories of the old South End as the number of hits on these stories is always high. Therefore I thought I’d bring you one more story on the reputation of the South End. It still holds some mystique and mystery and a bad reputation in spite of all the success of the good folks who once called the South End their home. (Another story I have done, by the way.)
My inspiration for this newest story of the South End comes from two sources. The first is a column written by David Grima, “Rockland Gothic” which appears in the Courier Gazette. I read his tongue-in-cheek eclectic column religiously. It’s like reading the old “Black Cat” column of Sid Cullen fame only with a bite to it.
I don’t think Grima is a Rockland native, but he claims to live in the eyesore we call the “grain storage bin” or as David calls it, the “west tower.” Several attempts at getting the darn thing dismantled have come to naught (where are eco-terrorists when you need them anyway). I have a feeling that if this thing sat down by the refurbished modern waterfront near the Landing, it would be long gone—just saying.
Anyway, in a recent column by Grima he mentions that he met up with an old Southender who stated that when she was a little girl her parents promised that if they ever knew of her hanging out in the South End that she would be grounded for life. Ironically, she now lives in the area of the old Fuller Market on Pacific and Crescent Streets—about as South End as you can get.
Grima also says he’s heard that residents of the old South End used to sleep with guns under their pillows. Well, I’m here to tell you I never saw or heard of anyone having any gun in the South End that wasn’t a hunting rifle. Yet the stories persist. The Big Bad South End.
Grima also mentions the Merriam boys who lived on Mechanic Street when the water came up almost to the road. It was a marshy area with an old barge sitting in the middle of it which the boys used to dive off. Another eyesore which was there for many years before it was removed. The location is now Snow Marine Park which even has a museum next door. Imagine that!
My family didn’t always live in the South End. When my brothers were little the family lived up on Cedar Street in the North End. By the time I was born, we lived on Mcloud Street. We moved to the Fulton Street house when I was a teenager.
 
 
The walkway beside the Fulton Street house as it appears today. Photo by Sandra Sylvester
 
Because my mother had made many friends in the North End, she tended to hold on to them when we moved “South.” It’s possible, therefore, that I was sheltered by her from the “bad” influences in the South End. I must say though, that I never felt afraid or threatened growing up in the South End. I have many happy memories of my years there.
Grima alluded to what is another inspiration for this story called “Rockland’s Gangs.” As Grima says, the Merriam boys were once prepared to go to war with the North End boys armed with BB guns.
I doubt if such an event ever occurred. However, according to another South End boy, Terry Economy, who grew up with my brothers in the South End and who became a member of the Maine Broadcasting Hall of Fame and who now writes a column for the Courier called “Rail Kids—Rockland Recollections,” at one time there were “gangs” in Rockland.
His recollections about these “gangs” were my other inspiration for this story.
In Terry’s “gang” story he mentions five gangs that once existed in Rockland: The North End gang, which the Merriam boys were probably talking about; the South End gang; Union Street gang; Thomaston Street gang; and the Alex gang, of which Terry was a member.
Terry says that the Alex gang, of the Orange Street area, was the toughest of them all. They were led by a leader called “The Boss” and they were all taught how to defend themselves. Their base was the second floor of an old barn in the area which was equipped with shift bunks, oil lamps, decorations, comic books and heat provided by an old tin wood stove. I’ve heard of many so-called “clubhouses” in the old South End neighborhood, but this is the most elaborate one I’ve ever heard of. It brings back images of the old “Our Gang” movies with Alfalfa and the gang.
The gangs of those days in the early 40s up to the early 50s were not like the gangs you imagine existed then and today in the big cities like New York City. The South End gangs were big rivals of each other; but fighting was not the way they solved anything. Rather they would play one game or another: baseball and football being the most played. There were no “street signs” made by your hands or “colors” worn by a specific gang. Building a snow fort, supplying it with icy snowballs and commencing to have a “snowball” fight was probably the extent of “violence” they took part  it.
As far as “turfs” go I can remember some areas I was told not to venture into. As I had two older brothers, I doubt that anyone in any of these gangs would have messed with me. I was very young in the early 40s also. It’s possible that these gangs were fading out by the time I was of an age to realize they existed.
As I lived in the Suffolk Street to Crescent Street and around to the Pacific Street area, I would feel uncomfortable if I ventured into an area such as upper Pleasant Street, near the Alex gang; or down on the lower end of Crescent Street and Atlantic Street area. It wasn’t exactly a fear I felt but rather just an uncomfortable feeling, especially when a strange kid stared at me in an unwelcoming way.
I was told in fact, not to hang out around lower Crescent Street. This is the area our young girl of the above story now lives.
We also had a couple of huge apartment houses which were scary to me as a little girl when I walked past them. The kids who lived in these apartments were probably the least privileged of all of us in the South End.  If they had enough to eat on a particular day it was a good day for them. They were therefore necessarily scrappy in order to survive.
I do remember one time, however, when I was thrilled to participate in the evening games of the gang my brother Harlan hung around with. I don’t know if his gang had a name or not. I do know that they really enjoyed hanging out together, playing ball games, swimming down at Sandy Shores or Dix Beach or the Little Granites.
On this night I was actually sitting on the steps belonging to the home of one of this gang on lower Crescent Street. The “gang” had more or less adopted me as a special mascot and I thoroughly enjoyed watching them play kick the can and Truth or Consequences (or the full name, Truth, Dare, Consequences, Promise or Repeat). You know what that game is if you ever lived in the South End or even the North End.
I don’t know if my mother even knew where I was on this night, and she was probably worried. The street lights had come on a while ago, which was the signal for me to come home. I expect my brother got a talking to when she found out where I’d been.
This same gang also took me to the Saturday afternoon movies at the Strand on Main Street one time. As Terry mentions in his story, each gang sat together which is how I remember it that day. I also remember a lot of commotion and throwing of popcorn, sticky candy and chewed gum. Those kids sitting in the balcony had the advantage as it was almost impossible to throw candy back at them up there. I’m guessing these “weapons” replaced the switchblades of the notorious city gangs.
Believe it or not, a big bunch of us who grew up in the South End survived and eventually became good citizens of whatever town or city we ended up in. Some of us even distinguished ourselves in one way or another. The Wicked South End wasn’t so wicked after all. Now Sea Street, or Tillson Avenue as it is called today, is another story altogether. Ask the folks at the Rockland Historical Society to show you pictures and tell you about that notorious area.
Thanks for listening.
Note: For those of you who are new to this blog space, the old stories of the South End appear for the most part in a CD called “On Being a Southender, Vol. 1, 2009.” If you would like one, see the box on the right side of this blog space down near the bottom.




Kendall Merriam

South End Poet

 



Kendall Merriam was born and raised in Rockland, Maine. He has a history degree from Gordon College in Wenham, MA and graduate studies in military and maritime history at the University of Maine at Orono and Mystic Seaport in Mystic, Conn. He also received grants to study historical research at Colonial Williamsburg and the National Archives in Washington, D.C. Merriam has been widely published, including in Katyn W Literaturze(Katyn in Literature), a Polish anthology of literary works about the WWII Katyn Forest Massacre by 120 international authors, including Czeslaw Milosz. Merriam has written more than twenty books and plays. Most of Merriam’s work has a definite muse – family, friends, and strangers – with life’s larger themes of work, love, loss and death. On April 29, 2010, Merriam was appointed Rockland, Maine’s Inaugural Poet Laureate, an honor from his hometown Merriam cherishes.
 
THE TEMPLE OF WISDOM
(For the Staff of China Coast)
 
I have heard that poetry
written in a restaurant in China
is a blessing for the poet
and the staff alike
both benefitting from good words
and good food
it is quiet in mid-afternoon
people contemplating a big supper
while I need energy
to write this and other poems
I have to confess
I love two men – Li Bai and Du Fu
for their poetry
of the T’ang Dynasty
it gives me great peace
in my heart
this place is as close to them
as I can get in my hometown Rockland
where some day
1,000 poets will arrive
 
Kendall Merriam, Inaugural Poet Laureate of Rockland, ME
At China Coast Restaurant   29 September 2012    4:08 PM
Listening to the clearing up before dinner
 
THE WORN DOWN TOOTH OF A MOUNTAIN
                       
                                    For Phyllis
 
                                    High blue water
                                    Haze over the far islands
                                    Strong breeze
                                    Still enough sun
                                    To keep us warm
                                    Hundreds of people
                                    From all the ancient countries
                                    Did my cousin write from here
                                    How did she carry ink and pen
                                    Before the invention of ballpoints
                                    Or did she visit
                                    So many times
                                    That the poem
                                    Was in her heart
                                    Long before she wrote it
                                    In whatever house
                                    Her mother could provide
                                    I, being a man, am afraid
                                    Of giant heights
                                    Fear of jumping out and down
                                    Phyllis climbs the tower
                                    Stands gazing
                                    Across God’s long handiwork
                                    Penobscot Bay, Camden Harbor
                                    With great joy
                                    Never thinking this would be hers
 
                                    Kendall Merriam, on Mt. Battie,
                                    September 25, 2012  3:42 PM
                                    Listening to mountain people & the wind
 
 
(Ted, a lover of Country music took many trips to Nashville. This one we think was in the 80s. I will present it to you in two parts—the second part will be in next month’s Fish and Chips.)
 
If you want to see the giants in the country music field, don’t bother to go to Nashville, Tenn. The stars aren’t there. They are on the road performing in such places as Bangor and Augusta earning upwards of $10,000 a night.
But if you want to be exposed to some fantastic entertainment and country music, Nashville is the place. We made a four-day whirlwind tour of Music City U.S.A. There were a few disappointments and prices were higher than expected, but, overall, it was a dream vacation.
We visited places like Loretta Lynn’s Dude Ranch, Twitty City, Grand Ole Opry, Opryland, Printer’s Alley and the world-famous Stock-Yard Restaurant and Bull Pen Lounge. Saw some of the city of 500,000 during a tour, as well as the homes of some of the greats. Also learned a little insight into human nature and the overwhelming fact that Nashville is a city geared to tourists—and the tourist dollar.
We were surprised to learn that music is not the No. 1 industry of Nashville. Printing is. The second biggest industry is finance, including banking and insurance. Third is the tourist industry, and fourth is country music. We found out that Opryland and Grand Ole Opry are for sale and that an offer of $300 million had been rejected.
We had not even checked into our motel room in Nashville before the tour salesman had us in front of his little booth and extolling the fantastic sights and sounds we could experience for a few dollars. We immediately signed up for the nightlife tour we had heard so much about from friends who had preceded us. This is a visit to the famous Printer’s Alley of Nashville where all the nightclubs are found. It is called Printer’s Alley because it had been just that, a string of buildings which formerly housed printing businesses and have since been converted to nightclubs.
Now hear this, for $45 a person you attended two clubs, saw three shows, had dinner and drinks. A tour guide transported you and accompanied you to the clubs where there was no waiting and you had front row seats. This was one of the most enjoyable evenings on the town one could have, capped by a visit to the Boots Randolph Club where Boots put on a show. We, in fact, were part of his monologue of the night. When we sneezed Boots turned it into a good laugh by advising the audience to get their shots before leaving.
The warm-up to the Boots show was an entertainer by the name of Jim Travers. When he found out we were from Maine, he told us he used to go with a girl from Belfast. We tried to get to him after the show but he was too busy hawking his albums and the guide was ushering us into our seats for the Boots show.
The only sour note of the experience was the realization afterward that the tour salesman had charged us $5 more a person than the advertised price for the tour.
The next night was Grand Ole Opry night for 21/2 hours of entertainment. The show is actually a live radio show broadcast over WSM, complete with commercials. Seldom do any of the giants of the industry appear, with the exception of the King, Roy Acuff. But there is plenty of good music from some former greats, near greats and artists trying to work their way to the top. Among those we saw were Jim Ed Brown, David Huston, Jean Shepard, Jack Greene, Jimmy Newman, Connie Smith, Ray Pillow, Roy Drusky, Skeeter Davis, The Four Guys and Hank Snow.
Opryland is a Disneyland-type operation except the emphasis is on music. There are eight to 10 continuous shows, plus a combination of amusements, rides, concessions, exhibits and restaurants. The price of admission--$12.75 a day, or $17.50 for a two-day ticket—will admit you to any or all of the shows, all rides and exhibits. You pay extra for food or any purchases. We saw six shows in two days. Country Music U.S.A. was the best production, although all others were worth seeing and very enjoyable.
Part 2 of this story will be presented here next month.



Sonny’s Sunshine Corner

As Sonny writes this column this month, “On Being a Southender” is closing in on 17,000 hits. The 1,000 reach each month continues. From your comments it seems that you all really enjoy reading the stories I bring to you.
The best part of writing this blog is that once in a while I meet up with an old Southender or someone who is a Mainiac living elsewhere. This month I had the pleasure of meeting up with Randall Achorn of the old neighborhood and his lovely wife, Susan. There were a lot of Achorns in the old neighborhood. I went to school with Bobby Achorn. Welcome to Southend Stories, Randall and Susan. I also continue to hear from an old fan of this space, Bill Pease. Thank you for your kind comments, Bill.
I would like to make a correction from last month’s Sonny’s Sunshine Corner. The way I wrote the sentence it appears that I called Kendall Merriam’s new book, “A Walk Back in Time.” In fact, that is the title of one of the stories I wrote for the blog space. The correct name of his book is The Light Relaxes into Evening. Speaking of Kendall, look for two new poems from him in his new guest blog space.
I wrote another member story for the Courier in September. “And the Band Plays On” which I also included in the blog space with an accompanying video, I also posted to the Courier member story site. To date it has received over 200 hits on that site plus it continues to be read at the blog site. The Mid Coast Community Band is celebrating 25 years and their book about their experiences, “And the Band Plays On” is on sale now. Monies will be used to keep the band going by paying for such things as sheet music and the upkeep of their flatbed truck which they use for parades. Please support this wonderful band.
This month look for the possible new guest blog of a chef who came from the Southend. Not promising, but negotiations are in the works. Also look for a story on the fire in Acadia National Park in 1947. It's the 65th anniversary of that terrrible time this year. I will bring you a scary story or two in honor of Halloween too.
As for my personal health. New medicine has alleviated, somewhat, nighttime leg cramps. I have begun to walk around the block again as a way to strengthen my legs. Here’s hoping.
For now Sonny says, “See you next month.”